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In chapter six of "Self and Other" R. D. Laing defined a collusion in terms of a game played dishonestly by two or more people who tacitly agree that they are: #1. Not playing any game, #2. Not to articulate the rules of their dishonest game, #3. Not to drop out of their dishonest game, #4. To severely punish and/or excommunicate anybody who does drop out of their dishonest game. Such people cannot recognize their dishonest game and cannot transcend their dishonest game; unilaterally or cooperatively.
Colluders are blind, deaf, dumb, and ill-at-ease; dis-eased. They cannot heal themselves and cannot accept theratening offers of true help from true lovers who can recognize, name, describe, transcend and subvert their dishonest game. Colluders feel/think that true lovers would send them straight into hell!
333 COLLUSION 101 COLLUSIONS 98 SIN 76 DOMINATION 76 ADDICTION 68 EVIL 66 ADDICT 57 DISHONESTY 57 CONTROL 56 SYSTEM 55 VIOLENCE 53 SELF 52 LOVE 50 INTEGRITY 49 CONFLICT 40 HONEST 40 GOD 37 PERSONAL 37 DISHONEST 35 GOOD 35 DECEPTION 35 COMMUNAL 33 ALIENATION 32 TRANSCEND 32 COERCION 31 SINS 29 POWER 28 HONESTY 28 DOUBLE 28 DEVILS 26 OPEN 25 TRUTH 25 RESPECT 25 CODEPENDENT 24 RELATIONSHIPS 24 CODEPEND 24 BIND 23 INTIMACY 22 PRISON 22 FEAR 22 ESCAPE 21 WAR 21 SEXUAL 21 SEX 21 SALVATION 21 PEOPLE 21 DIALOGUE 21 ARROGANCE 21 ADDICTIONS 20 RESOLUTION 20 DEVIL 19 PARADIGM 19 LOVERS 19 DOMINEERING
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