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%%DOMINATION 030701Anne Wilson Schaef has written that if you are tempted to be dishonest you are addicted; even if you have not "yielded" to the temptation to be dishonest. True lovers are not even tempted to be dishonest, because they know that being dishonest is a sure way to undermine most personal and communal integrities which give meaning and significance to living and loving.
Domineering people who feel that they must be in control to be secure, are often tempted to be dishonest. Many become addicted to collusive games of mutual self deception, while trying to use coercion and violence to achieve security through invulnerability. Such efforts are tragically futile and hopeless, but domineering people do not dare break their collusion's rules by dealing honestly with the futility of their efforts. They would be rejected by their friends if they broke collusion rules! They dare not! Trying to stand together, they fall together.
============================================================ 448 DOMINATION 346 SYSTEM 190 SIN 163 CONTROL 143 GOD 129 SELF 113 EVIL 111 GOOD 108 DOMINEERING 94 RELATIONSHIPS 93 LOVERS 92 PERSONAL 87 VIOLENCE 86 PEOPLE 86 LOVE 83 DEVIL 81 DEVILS 79 CONFLICT 77 COERCION 74 INTEGRITY 72 POWER 71 COMMUNAL 67 SINS 65 VULNERABLE 62 RESPECT 55 LAWS 54 POWERS 54 DECEPTION 52 HONOR 52 ARROGANCE 51 HONESTY 51 HONEST 49 INTIMACY 48 SECURITY 48 HEALTHY 48 COLLUSION 46 SUPPORT 46 EXCLUSIVE 46 ALIENATION 45 SEXUAL 45 MUTUAL 45 COLLUSIVE 44 ESSENTIAL 43 OPEN 42 SYSTEMS 42 RESOLUTION 41 DISHONESTY 41 COLLUSIONS 40 WAR 40 SUBVERT 40 OTHER
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