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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9303021.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ESCAPE COLLUSION TABOO SALVATION REDEMPTION PRAY 930302 The imprisoning fabrics of our lives are woven out of our fears of rejection: 1. By participants in our collusions. 2. By addicts and supportive codependents. 3. By people who violate our integrity/communities. 4. By dishonest people who do not truly love us. 5. In the absence of true security/vulnerability. 6. For being true to ourselves and each other. 7. For enjoying non-conformal pleasures. 8. For transcending conformal manipulations. 9. For being truly imaginative and creative. 10. Seeking truth, honesty, integrity and health. Our fears are nurtured and guided by our collusions, addictions and codependencies in their own dishonest self defense. Non-conformal pleasures, joys and enjoyments are taboo; because through them we might escape the tightly woven fabric of our fears of rejection. Truly loving acceptance is taboo; because such acceptance robs collusions, addictions and supportive codependents of their manipulative powers to control our: experiences, perceptions, feelings, desires, thoughts, judgements, values, ideals, attitudes, listening, expressions, communication channels, conversations, talk, silences, dialogue, and being who we are. True love by small disintegrative steps is converted into systems of ethical rules, moral injunctions, and legal prohibitions---which can be manipulated as tools of control by powerful and respected colluders, addicts and their supportive codependents. True love is forgotten behind the mask for respectable conformity, which is regarded as safe and reliable. Respectable conformity is neither safe nor reliable; for behind its mask are intense and unresolved frustration, resentment, anger, confusion, forgetfulness, tension, contention, conflict, and violence which is ready to explode when triggered by the last straw. The greater is the fear that the mask will fail, the greater are the efforts to promote continued manipulative conformity; and the greater becomes the pressure leading to the ultimate and nearly inevitable explosion. Those who promote such conformity consider themselves to be respectable, righteous, saved, superior, perfected, and members of an exclusive club of the best people that exist. In their self-righteousness they are alienated from each other, themselves, and those whom they have excluded from their exclusive club. They are frightened in their loneliness, and intensity their technocratic efforts to save themselves through addictive and codependent fixes which are designed to save their dishonest collusions. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================