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This-essay is a9906131.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %COERCIVE UNILATERAL VIOLENT EXPECTATIONS DEMANDS+990613 %GRACIOUS TENDER MUTUAL AGREEMENT COOPERATION LOVE+990613 %WIN GETTING YES AGREEMENT CONTRACT PROMISE COMMIT+990613 %CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKERS WAR DISINTEGRATION 990613 People who are truly in love --- comfortably expect certain kinds of behaviors of each other; although not necessarily certain specific actions of each other. People who are in contentious and/or conflicted relationships may unilaterally expect certain specific actions of each other --- in manners which are coercive, violent and alienative. There are many other relationships and corresponding expectations: 1. Signatories to negotiated contracts. 2. Marriage partners. 3. Teachers and students. 4. Professionals and people whom they serve. 5. Parents and children. 6. Religious leaders and their congregations. 7. Political candidates and supportive parties. 8. Judges, lawyers, plaintiffs and defendants. 9. Military commanders and their soldiers. Expectations may engender cooperation, conflict, tension or violence. Some expectations may be legitimate; others may be quite unreasonable and illegitimate. Often people disagree about what expectations are reasonable, and what are unreasonable --- for the expectations flow from conflicting conceptions of transcendent ideals, values, principles, commandments, etc. What may seem so obvious and beyond question to one person --- may seem to others to be unreasonable, improper, and objectionable to others. Creative conflict resolution is often impossible so long as participants cannot trace the conflicts back to their unexamined roots --- which may be buried in expectations, attitudes, and assumptions which have never been examined or articulated. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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