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This-essay is a9906132.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %GORDIAN KNOT DOUBLE BIND ULTIMATE CONCERN CONFLICT 990613 The image of the Gordian Knot points to the eternal tension between exclusive emphases upon attempts to solve technical problems in ways suggested by words on the left and right below: LOVE LAW SUBMISSION DOMINANCE LETTING-GO CONTROLS LIBERATION RESCUE FORGIVENESS JUSTIFICATION GIFT PURCHASE SECURITY DEFENSES ENJOYMENT SUCCESS BEING-WHOLE ACHIEVEMENT SAFE-VULNERABILITY INVULNERABILITY HONEST-DIALOGUE REPUTATION INTIMACY COLLUSION FRIENDSHIP FORMALITY PRIVATE PUBLIC REFLEXIVE OBJECTIVE CONFESSION PROOF RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUALS HUMILITY ARROGANCE INCLUSIVITY EXCLUSIVITY RECONCILIATION JUDGMENT COOPERATION CONDEMNATION DIALOGUE EXCOMMUNICATION LEARNING TEACHING MENTOR CURRICULUM EXAMPLE FORMULA ROLE-MODEL PRESCRIPTION LOVER JUDGE TENDERNESS FIRMNESS INTERNAL EXTERNAL DILEMMA PROBLEM PERSONAL TECHNICAL GRACIOUS LEGALISTIC INTUITIVE SYSTEMATIC INTEGRITY CONFORMITY AFFECTIONATE PROPER AUTHENTIC RESPECTABLE RESPONSIVE OBEDIENT Frustration flows from attempts to solve dilemmas in just one way --- without any awareness of the truths pointed to by complementary ways. Often what seem to be technical problems --- are dilemmas for which there can be no technical solution. Technical solutions are often irrelevant to the resolution of reflexive dilemmas. When there is confusion about the differences between dilemmas and technical problems --- neither situation is likely to be dealt with wisely. The paradigm which is appropriate to one is unlikely to be appropriate to the other. They cannot be dealt with wisely if the individual differences between them and between people confronted by them are not recognized, named, described and made the focus of open and honest dialogue. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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