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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9801251.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ENTRAPMENT PRETENSE ABNORMAL INTOLERABLE LOVE SIN+980125 %COLLUSIVE SALVATION GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION+980125 %DOUBLE BOUND BINDINGS TRUTH OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE+980125 %SICKNESS DISEASE ILLUSION DELUSION RESPECTABLE 980125 If we are willing to play collusive games of pretense we are bound to become bound in double binds of entrapment. When playing such games it is "normal" to pretend that what is truly normal is "abnormal", and it is "normal" to pretend that what is truly abnormal is "normal". Thus it is rarely clear which is which. A powerful person who has appointed self to serve as policemen, detective, prosecutor, judge, jury and executioner --- is bound to play fast and loose with the truth and with conceptions of normality. No one is secure in such a situation. It is not safe to be vulnerable in open and honest intimate dialogue. It is not safe to be intimate and it is not safe to be alienated. When we pretend that what is truly normal is "abnormal" we are sick, dis-eased, ill, illusionary, or delusionary --- in the context of collusive games of mutual self deception. When we pretend that what is truly abnormal is "normal" we are sick, dis-eased, ill, illusionary, or delusionary --- in the context of collusive games of mutual self deception. When we are entrapped in trying to figure out when to pretend that we are "abnormally" normal --- and when to pretend that we are "normally" abnormal we are sick, dis- eased, ill, illusionary, delusionary --- in the context of collusive games of mutual self deception. Under such circumstances we are unlikely to know the difference between being normally normal and abnormally abnormal. Learning from our mistakes is impossible and teaching each other helpful truths is unthinkable. Then only a terrible miracle can save us --- and that would be intolerable. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================