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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9612041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTAGIOUS DISINTEGRATIVE FEAR SHAME GUILT EVIL+961204 %DISEASE ADDICTION CODEPENDENCE COLLUSIVE GAMES+961204 %OBJECTIONS ANXIETY SELF OTHER RISK TRUST BEHAVE 961204 On many occasions fear, shame, guilt and anxiety lead us into disintegrative patterns of assumptions, attitudes, perceptions, beliefs, convictions and behaviors. On some occasions fear, shame, guilt and anxiety lead us to behave wisely and prudently. Our dilemma is to distinguish between occasions---to recognize those occasions in which contagious fear, same, guilt and anxiety are prone to mislead us. Often we are dominated by other people's fears, shame, guilt and anxiety. Others may INVITE us to share their misleading fears, shame, guilt and anxiety. Yet others may DEMAND that we modify our behaviors in order to accommodate to their fears, shame, guilt and anxiety. In such occasions fears, shame, guilt and anxiety act much like biological infectious agents (amoebae, germs, bacteria, viruses, molds, prions, etc.) which "cause" many of our diseases. However, many of our diseases are just as much "caused" by contagious fears, shame, guilt and anxiety---as by biological micro-organisms. When do other people have the RIGHT TO DEMAND that we modify our behaviors because of their fears, shame, guilt and anxiety? When they are clinically paranoid? When they are uninformed? When they are confused? When they are collusive? When they are otherwise being dishonest? Whey they have unreasonable expectations of us? Only fools would grant such rights! How are we to distinguish between such clear-cut-cases---and the more ambiguous and/or paradoxical cases? How are we and others to recognize with confidence the occasions when fears, shame, guilt and anxiety are very likely to lead to integrative patterns of assumptions, attitudes, perceptions, beliefs, convictions and behaviors. We need to work to create secure contexts within which it is safe for all people to engage in open and honest dialogue about how to recognize such occasions; else we will not be able to recognize them. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================