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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9206172.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OPEN HONEST SEX INTIMACY RELATION BLOCK COLLUSION 920617 We cannot easily be open and honest with each other in intimate relationships if we cannot be open and honest with each other about our sexuality. Intimate relationships create the possibilities of sexual relationships. If we cannot be open and honest about our sexuality in our intimate relationships, we cannot cooperate with each other with regards to our expressions of our sexuality, and we cannot learn from our embarrassments when we falter in developing our levels and styles of intimacy. It is important for us to learn how to be open and honest with each other about our sexuality, because in the absence of such knowledge/ability/skill we will find that we will hesitate to be open and honest about other matters which might lead toward the possibility of sexual involvement. Such hesitation increases the possibility of slipping into collusive games of mutual self deception, within which openness and honesty about sexuality will be regarded as a threat to the "integrity" of the fabric of dishonest threads within our collusions. Open and honest sex education with integrity is essential to personal and communal integrity; for in its absence people find it difficult to form intimate relationships with many other people. If children do not learn about sexuality and the possibilities of sexual relationships with personal and communal integrity, they are likely to slip into patterns of separation, alienation, being lonely, and participating in collusive games of mutual self deception. Such people are often manipulated and taken advantage of by other people like themselves. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================