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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9206173.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RESPONSIVE REASONABLE OPEN HONEST REVEAL SELF SEX 920617 To be responsible we need to be openly and honestly responsive. We cannot be responsible if we cannot be openly and honestly responsive, revealing our deepest selves to each other. If we are involved in playing collusive games of mutual self deception with addicts and codependents, we cannot be openly and honestly responsive, for we are not free to reveal our deepest selves to each other---such revelations would be treason, giving away collusive team secrets to the enemy. If we are involved in playing collusive games of mutual self deception with addicts and codependents, we cannot be responsible, and cannot enjoy personal and communal integrity in a community which enjoys integrity. We will instead disintegrate within a disintegrating community. In the absence of responsive leaders who are open and honestly responsible to those who have selected them to be leaders---the tendency is toward disintegration; for in the absence of integrative efforts the tendency is toward disintegration. It takes energy and creativity to create order/integrity and to separate that which is disordered from that which is integrated. The second law of thermodynamics describes the overall pattern of each isolated part of the universe to become more disordered, chaotic, dis-integrated through all natural processes. Within some parts of the universe concentrated energy may do work and create islands of integrity, and also reduce the level of concentration of the energy. The increased disorder (less concentrated energy) is sent out into inter-stellar space in the form of low density waste- heat-energy. Work is done to increase the density of order, structure, and integrity in a local island within inter-stellar space. Such integration is brought about by agents of integration, integrative leaders who distinguish between order and disorder. In human communities such agents of unification are responsible leaders who are responsible by being responsive in open and honest ways to those who have trusted them and took the risk of electing them to be leaders. Such integrative people help to create unification in their communities by promoting high levels of open and honest communication---whereby their followers become more intimate in sharing whatever they experience, perceive, know, believe, feel, and are. They seek to be true to themselves and to each other, rather than seek to be conformists, or seek to make others to be conformists. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================