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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8710291.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DIALOGUE ABOUT INTEGRATIVE STRUCTURE FANTASIES 871029 Fantasies can be threatening if they contain no perceived structure and occur outside the context of a secure structure. Fantasies can be liberating if they occur within a secure context, and are jointly perceived as the way to get from an unsatisfactory situation to what may well be a much more satisfactory situation. Only through dialogue about new possibilities can we sort out which of the possibilities are more integrative in both personal and communal ways, than are the ways we are traveling. The structures of our fantasies need to be examined within a secure present structure; a structure in which we feel secure in examining what may at first seem to be threatening possibilities. Part of such a secure context is a mutual agreement upon the importance of open and honest dialogue in the midst of conflict about lesser values and ideals. Absent such an agreement there is bound to be disintegration of dialogue, and so of personal and communal integrity. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================