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This-essay is a9903121.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %ISSUES CONTROL DEDICATION COMMITMENT TABOO ALIEN+990312 %CHURCH SANCTUARY SAFE VULNERABILITY SECURITY LOVES 990312 People who are preoccupied with issues of control often are be committed to defending taboos in alienative ways --- when there are far more integrative ways to address the dilemmas at hand. Their defense of taboos often entail playing collusive games of mutual self deception --- according to which there are no significant alienative costs in their preoccupations with issues of control. They do not take seriously the costs of: 1. Not being free to be safely vulnerable in sanctuaries where people engage in open and honest dialogue without fear of their vulnerability being taken advantage of. 2. The loss of personal integrity due to internalized blame, shame, guilt, condemnations, fears, anxieties, and dis-ease. 3. The loss of communal integrity due to people being dedicated to finding fault with each other --- in contests to get-ahead of each other while seeking "merit-point" advantages. 4. The loss of personal and communal integrity due to formal and informal processes of ex-communication, banishment, ostracism, exclusivity, self-righteousness and arrogance. 5. The loss of personal and communal integrity due to preoccupations with perfection and the elimination of all that is imperfect. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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