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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MANDATORY DEFENSIVENESS CONTENTIOUS CONFLICT EVIL+981114 %DISENGAGEMENT DISHONEST COLLUSION CONTEST VIOLENCE 981114 When contentious people are dominant and/or in charge --- they often lead us into mandatory patterns of defensiveness, contentiousness, conflict, disagreement and anxiety. It is not a simple matter to say "no thank you" to their patterns of being defensive, contentious, conflicted, disagreeable and anxious. It is an insult to their way of life to fail to respond to them in kind; for they cannot tolerate conflict-resolution, reconciliation, peacemaking, cooperation, and honesty. They cannot tolerate anything which will expose the lack of integrity in their collusive games of mutual self deception. Playing their games is mandatory. Failing to play their games is grounds for severe punishment! (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================