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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9611091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PERSONAL RELATION CARE POWER TRUST BALANCE FEEL+961109 %THINK CONVICTION DEVIL ALIENATION DESTRUCTION+961109 %ISSUES POWER CONTROL IMPOSSIBLE SECURITY DEFENSE 961109 It is one thing to care about how another person feels and thinks about oneself --- because of self- centered desires to gain an advantage, get ahead, or increase on's own favorable reputation. It is a different thing to care about another person as a personal friend whose friendship is highly valued and yearned for in a continuing personal relationship---and within that context to care about how the friend feels and thinks about oneself. The former kind of care is likely to be associated with concerns about the power to be in control, and with issues of control in general. The latter kind of care is indifferent to power to be in control, and indifferent to issues of control in general---except as they engender alienation, violence and disintegration. The former kind of care is likely to be associated with defensive efforts to avoid being personally vulnerable, while at the same time taking advantage of other peoples' vulnerability and tricking them into being vulnerable. The latter kind of care is likely to be associated with the exchange of and enjoyment of gifts of the freedom to be safely vulnerable within intimate relationships where vulnerability is mutual and balanced. The former kind of care is likely to be associated with formal relationships in which there is a lack of trust and/or an absence of balanced power. The latter kind of care is likely to be associated with informal relationships in which there is serene trust and either a balance of power of the transcendence of the tendency for an imbalance of power to lead to corruption, advantage-taking and disintegration. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================