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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9608181.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COMPULSIVE PREOCCUPATION CONTROL INTIMACY LOVE SEX 960818 People who are preoccupied with issues of control fear lovers' desires for intimacy and the pleasures and knowledge which come with open and honest intimacy---for such desires, pleasures and knowledge are deadly threats to the collusive paradigm of people who are preoccupied with issues of control. When true lovers respond with integrity to their mutual desires for intimacy and the pleasures and knowledge which come with open and honest intimacy---the lovers gain insights into the nature of the collusive games of mutual self deception of addictive people who are preoccupied with issues of control. People who are preoccupied with issues of control respond to the threats of expanded insights and knowledge on the part of true lovers --- by collusively representing the unconventional behaviors of true lovers as threats to all that is: respectable, decent, orderly, traditional, conventional, good, moral, ethical, lawful, legal, and Godly. It is dangerous to let people fall in love without proper guidance and controls! People who are truly falling in love do unconventional things and they cannot be trusted to behave properly! Collusive ways are found to put boundaries around what people who are truly falling in love are permitted to do---and if they violate those boundaries they are alienated from the participants in the collusive rituals- --and treated as evil people. The collusive people with arrogant self-righteousness look down upon those whom they have alienated from themselves. The true lovers pray that God may forgive the alienations for they know not what they do---for they are participants in collusive games of mutual self deception. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================