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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9411091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %I-MESSAGES OPEN HONEST BEING TRUE SELF OTHER 941109 I-messages as considered here are: 1. Open, honest, authentic, true, etc. 2. Revealing one's own experiences & perceptions. 3. Non-demanding and make no attempt at control. 4. Messages promoting personal/communal integrity. I-messages often start with the following words: I-did I-experienced I-failed I-learned I-saw I-heard I-felt I-touched I-tasted I-perceived I-repressed I-offended I-hurt I-believe I-decided I-apologize I-acted I-ordered I-asked I-told I-refused I-accepted I-rejected I-violated I-helped I-forgot I-wanted I-want I-needed I-need I-desired I-desire I-hoped I-hope I-said I-deceived I-lied I-regret I-messages are often neglected out of fear that they will make the speaker vulnerable---which they do do. In an attempt to achieve security by avoiding reflexive I-messages we alienate ourselves from each other, and from ourselves---and so generate coercive, manipulative and violent communities in which we feel it is not safe to offer I-messages. We limit ourselves to objective-messages and You-messages in which attention is directed away from ourselves and our truths, to misleading messages based upon our ignorance of each other and of ourselves. When we direct our attention away from ourselves; to each other as objects, and to impersonal objects, we become alienated from the ground of our being true to ourselves and each other. We disintegrate. ==========================================================