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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9411081.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DENIAL DENY AVOID PREVENT PUNISH TABOO LAW SIN+941108 %AFFIRM OFFER ENCOURAGE REWARD FORGIVE PARADIGM+941108 %GIVE GIFT ACCEPT LOVE AFFECTION SECURITY TRUST+941108 %ROOT CAUSE EFFECT SOURCE CONFLICT VIOLENCE WAR 941108 Many of our conflicts are rooted in paradigms which focus attention upon: DENIALS AVOIDANCE PREVENTION PUNISHMENTS TABOOS LEGALISMS CONTROLS TECHNOLOGIES SINS ALIENATIONS MORALITY EXCOMMUNICATIONS LAWS AUTHORITY PERFECTION POWER The usual result of focusing attention upon the above as centers of negativity---is a negative response and leads to the escalation of conflict in reciprocal denials and attempts to eliminate negativity through the use of more negativity. Negativity breeds negativity in a vicious cycle which often grows geometrically-exponentially. The resolution of a conflict is often facilitated by a paradigm which focuses positive attention upon: AFFIRMATIONS BALANCE HEALING ENCOURAGEMENT KINDNESS AFFECTION RELAXATION ACCEPTANCE GIFTS FORGIVENESS DIALOGUE LISTENING SECURITY CHILDREN TOLERANCE RESPONSIVENESS HEART HONESTY INTEGRITY SIMPLICITY We need to take time to recognize, take to heart, to name, to articulate and to talk about what our experiences indicate are the typical consequences of operating in terms of the contrasting paradigms which the above comments point to. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================