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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9410182.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISHONEST ENJOYMENT FULFILLMENT SATISFACTION TRUTH 941018 Uncoerced honesty is essential to our enjoyment, fulfillment and satisfaction in any endeavor. Honesty cannot be coerced. Only addictive people try to coerce honesty to get powerless people to become vulnerable to them, so that they can take advantage of the powerless people. The common response to such addictive coercion is to try to avoid all forms of vulnerability. This makes true security impossible, because true security is the acceptance of and exercise of the gift of the freedom to be safely vulnerable. Dishonesty is not an effective tool in efforts to achieve enjoyment, fulfillment and satisfaction. Dishonesty is not an effective tool of manipulation, unless it is kept hidden. Open dishonesty is not an effective tool of manipulation, for people can defend themselves against open dishonesty. Covert dishonest is not an effective tool in efforts to achieve enjoyment, fulfillment and satisfaction---for each dishonest expression, action or appearance must be hidden with additional dishonest expressions, actions and appearances---in an endless exponential growth of dishonesty with growing anxiety; and with fear that the exponential growth pattern will become apparent, exposed, revealed, and untenable. Such an untenable situation generates anxiety, fear, tension, conflict and violence--- which undermines all possibilities of joy, enjoyment, happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction. Thus dishonesty is not an effective tool in efforts to achieve enjoyment, fulfillment and satisfaction. Honesty is central within all contexts where people enjoy fulfillment and satisfaction in cooperative efforts to meet their own needs, while helping others to meet their own needs. In such contexts people's focus is not upon achievements through technical efforts to reach unilaterally set goals, requirements and pre- requisites. The whole mind-set within such joyful contexts is in great contrast to the mind-set of dishonest collusive addicts and their codependent supporters who are engaged in willful conflict perpetuation. (See the previous essay.) (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================