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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9402211.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %GOAL ALIENATE INTEGRATE JUDGEMENT REJECT ACCEPT 940221 It is important to recognize and respect the difference between integrative judgements and alienative judgements. Integrative judgements facilitate and encourage personal and communal integrity---by dealing openly and honestly with the natural consequences of decisions and actions. Through integrative judgements people learn from mistakes and become wise in very practical ways, minimizing repeated mistakes. Alienative judgements create barriers between people, discourage communication, inhibit openness and honesty, and encourage the development of collusive games of mutual self deception. Alienative judgements entail condemnation, shaming and guilting --- which inhibit learning from mistakes; so mistakes are repeated over and over. The self righteous people who engage in alienative judgements refuse to deal openly and honestly with the fact that they are engendering alienation and all the dysfunctional types of behavior which alienation generates. Important as the differences between alienative and integrative judgements are, it is exceedingly difficult for people who have been trained to be compulsively objective to recognize and deal with those differences--- because the differences are essentially reflexive; the opposite of objective. According to objectivists' training it is taboo to openly and honestly deal with reflexive realities. Thus such people traditionally play collusive games of mutual self deception and ignore the differences between alienative and integrative judgements- --and so are both confused and misleading when they play the role of invited expert in situations which entail alienative judgements. Often technical experts ignore the differences between alienative and integrative judgements- --in scientific research laboratories, engineering projects, churches, political situations, and humanistic endeavors. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================