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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9311141.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PREOCCUPATION CONFORMITY LEAD VIOLENT RELATIONSHIP+931114 %REBELLION ANGER REPRESSION CONTROL COLLUDE ADDICT+931114 %MIRACLE ACHIEVE ESCAPE TRANSCEND PRISON TRAP 931114 Preoccupation with conformity often leads people into violent inter-personal relationships. People who are preoccupied with being in control have conceptions of how things and people should behave, be, become, believe, change, etc. They seek to get things and people to conform to their conceptions of how they should behave, be, become, believe, change, etc. Such behaviors are characteristic of addicts and their codependent supporters. People who are the victims of addicts and codependent supporters of addicts are often in rebellion and anger are preoccupied with conformity; seeking to avoid conformity through rebellion and anger. Yet even in rebellion and anger the issue of conformity dominates their lives. They are still preoccupied with conformity and are led into violent inter-personal relationships through their anger and rebellion. Preoccupation with conformity often leads people into violent inter-personal relationships---whether the preoccupation focuses upon generating conformity or upon trying to escape from conformity. To transcend violence we need to seek to transcend preoccupation with issues of conformity, control, submission and being victim. Such transcendence is a miracle which we cannot plan, design, achieve, or control. We do need to learn to be receptive to the presence of its possibilities and to be ready to accept the miracle should it be fulfilled in our presence. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================