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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9209231.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PAIR WORD CONCEPT TOGETHER CONFLICT PEACE DEFEND 920923 It is revealing and instructive to consider two or more of the following words/concepts together to see if they may (or may not) apply meaningfully together to a given situation in a honestly descriptive way. A few examples of such considerations follow the list: SECURE DEFENSIVE VULNERABLE PEACEFUL INSECURE NON-DEFENSIVE INVULNERABLE CONFLICTIVE TRANQUIL RELAXED TENSE INTENSE HONEST DISHONEST COLLUSIVE ADDICTIVE A person who is truly secure is not defensive. A person who is defensive is not truly secure. A person who is truly secure may be vulnerable if the person is living within a context where true security has been given as a free gift which is the freedom to be vulnerable. Similarly a person who is vulnerable may be truly secure. A defensive person may or may not be vulnerable; for many defensive people seek to be invulnerable and are often considered to be invulnerable---but nevertheless remain defensive. Defensiveness is not closely related to real vulnerability, even though defensiveness is often related to feelings of vulnerability and desires for invulnerability which is regarded as the key to security. The truly peaceful person is usually secure even though vulnerable. The truly peaceful person is not defensive. The defensive person is not peaceful or secure, even when apparently invulnerable. Defensiveness does not generate peacefulness even when it achieves the appearance of invulnerability. Defensive people are almost always insecure and almost always regard invulnerability to be equivalent to security; but never feel secure in proportion to their invulnerability. Defensive people always feel insecure no matter what the level of their defensive accomplishments. Defensive people are conflictive; involved in many unresolved conflicts within their extended communities and within their psychic structures where they have internalized external unresolved conflicts between ideals, values, principles, means/ends, technologies, desires, fears, etc. Truly secure people are not thus conflictive; they are relaxed in peaceful integrative personal and communal relationships. They can relax and be tranquil in true shalom. They feel no need to be tense or intense. Honesty, openness and true dialogue are associated with true security, peace, tranquility, integrity and shalom. Dishonesty, secretiveness, defensiveness, insecurity, collusiveness, addictions, tensions and unresolved conflicts are commonly associated with each other. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================