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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9103121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %BOND RISK TRUST TABOO OBJECT BIAS CONTROL ADDICT 910312 Some people avoid the bonding of authentic friendships and authentic sexual relationships out of fear that such bonding would undermine their ability to be properly objective, properly unbiased, or properly in control. Such fear is the fear of the addict who in insecurity is so defensive as to be unable to risk entering into relationships which entail honest vulnerability. Such fear leads its victims to choose alienation with its bias of personal ignorance, as being preferable to the bias of being bonded through intimate knowledge, friendship and/or sexual relationships. Such fear is rationalized in terms of being professional, scientific, objective, unbiased, etc. Such fear does not lead to the transcendence of bias; rather it leads to the bias of dishonesty about the motivations which are the cause of avoidance of intimacy with its risks of vulnerability. Avoidance of intimacy entails, however, the risks of ignorance and the risks of making decisions in ignorance; and also failing to learn from mistakes made because of the ignorance of alienation. Where there is much alienation and personal ignorance we need to consider whether the ignorance may be rooted in the addictive thought patterns of professionals seeking to transcend bias through objectivity which is motivated by the fear that personal bonding would undermine the ability to be properly objective, properly unbiased, or properly in control. We need to acknowledge that such addictive thought patterns lead to the biases of dishonesty, alienation and personal ignorance; and then seek to change in ways which will transcend such biases in honestly. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================