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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9101122.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SELF RIGHTEOUS FOCUS COERCION DISINTEGRATE SHOULD 910112 Self-righteous people focus their attention, energy and effort on making people do what they think people should do, and so self righteous people tend to promote personal and communal disintegration. In contrast, personal and communal integrity are promoted by humble people focusing their attention and energy on respecting: 1. Honesty in all inter-personal relationships. 2. Non-manipulative and non-conformal behaviors. 3. Facilitators of secure contexts for open dialogue. 4. Seekers of mutually satisfying cooperation. 5. Non-manipulative affection, intimacy and sex. 6. Helping people to take good care of themselves. 7. Work towards inter-cultural mutual understanding. 8. Creative win-win conflict resolution. 9. Honestly learning through mistakes & forgiveness. 10. Dynamically balanced living and growing together. Most people who are preoccupied with "shoulds", "don'ts", "prohibitions", "taboos", "conformities", "non-conformities", "guilts", "shames", "punishments", "rewards" and similar concerns are compulsive in their preoccupations; and contribute to personal and communal disintegration through their efforts, whether their pre-occupations are affirmative or negative. Honestly humble people do not try to be in control. By being and simply taking good care of their own unique selves with integrity, they contribute more to personal and communal integrity, than do those people who work very hard and sacrificially to make people be good and successful. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================