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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9004022.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MEANING INTIMACY ADDICT OWN OTHER FEMALE SEX RIGHT 900402 Often the addict misinterprets the meaning of intimacy, thinking that being willing to be intimate on the part of the female means being willing to be subservient. Under this assumption the willing female is willing to be owned by the dominant male; and the relationship of ownership and dominance is to be publicly acknowledged by the marriage ceremony. If people entering into intimate relationships are not careful to be themselves in open and honest dialogue about their respective assumptions, they may find themselves involved in conflicting relationships because of unrecognized incongruent assumptions. It is important to come to a mutual recognition of each participant's assumptions regarding intimacy, privacy, self-care, caring for other, independence, dependence, interdependence, etc. If convictions in regard to these elements of human relationships are strong and incongruent, it is futile to pretend that a meaningful integrative relationships is possible. Such pretentious relationships lead to tragic consequences; they tend to be addictive and codependent, full of collusive games of mutual self deception. An integrative marriage ceremony will help the couple and their community begin the marriage relationship with a clear mutual understanding of the attitudes and belief which are sound foundations for a healthy and enduring relationship. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================