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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8610112.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %WHOLISTIC INTEGRATIVE SEXUAL RELATIONS 861011 Many sexual relationships fall short of being genuinely integrative in a wholistic way. Many personal relationships entail coercion, manipulation and alienation which are motivated by selfish consideration. The intimacy of such relationships is not integrative because it involves forms of violence, the violation of some personal and/or communal integrity. Any selfish effort to get what sexuality has to offer is bound to be disintegrative, not integrative, Sexual unions which entail coercion are in the final analysis alienative, disintegrative; not wholistic in support of both personal and communal integrity. Efforts to achieve sexual fulfillment in less than wholistic integrative ways fail to be as integrative and fulfilling. They are not, efforts to join in wholistic integrative sexual relationships---within the context of and in support of communal affirmations of wholistic integrative sexual relationships. The cycle of interdependence of support must be gracious; else it is likely to disintegrate into a vicious cycle of disintegration of personal and communal intimacies. Wholistic integrative sexual relationships are not the fruits of legalistic, moralistic, or ethical prescriptions; although they are often motivated by desires to transcend and fulfill the visions of such technical efforts. Attempts to fulfill such visions via technological means, systems and institutions fall far short of the vision. Lead by Love, Power and Justice people who are dedicated to wholistic integrative sexual relating enjoy the miracle of transcendent fulfillments which technically oriented people are incapable of. Such fulfillments can not be achieved; they are the gifts of Love which is not dedicated to the celebration of techniques. Techniques for achieving desirable ends become perverse when alienation is generated by affirmations of the goodness of the techniques. This is true of any system for promoting proper sexual relationships. Wholistic integrative sexual relationships entail the promotion of freedom within the context of interdependence, mutuality of desires and powers, open and honest dialogue, and flexibility of response to unexpected and unpredicted new circumstances. Such relationships are not technological achievements. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================