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This-essay is a7712102.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %ECHO RELATIONSHIPS 771210 Some relationships are fundamentally echo relationships. Jack shows declining interest in Jill because Jack feels that Jill is showing declining interest in him. Meanwhile, Jill is showing declining interest in Jack because she feels that Jack is showing declining interest in her. As each amplifies the echo they received from the other---the message of declining interest grows more and more dominant---even though the original message was-a subtle and ambiguous expression occasioned by a passing upset stomach. Echo relationships may involve the amplification of one's own original message received back as an echo---or it may involve the amplification of the lover's message which the lover may echo back again. Thoughtless echoing of messages tends to be risky, especially when there is a tendency towards amplification or expansion of the original message. Echo relationships can develop very quickly because of the speed which is possible in non-verbal dialogue---transactions taking place in small fractions of a second in many instances. Where there is lack of trust, misunderstanding and distrust can be amplified quickly through the dialogue of an echo relationship. Where there is deep trust and mutuality the dialogue of a thoughtful echo relationship can build greater mutuality and understanding. Participants may thoughtfully confirm the messages which they receive and respond with their own initiatives which affirm their understandings of the messages received. In such instances dialogue transcends thoughtless echos. Through non-verbal communications lovers may quickly exchange perceptions, feelings, images, visions, desires, and their mutual awareness in a melody of echos which build into a beautiful harmony. The rhythm of reciprocity is as a dance in which two move and grow as one. In such echo relationships amplification is of a kind which expands the range of mutual understanding, rather than the intensity of misunderstanding. Intimate relationships are not possible without thoughtful echos which confirm each other's complimentary values. People who are always demanding that the other affirm their own dominant values---are people who are rarely affirming complimentary values that the other affirms. They tend to engage in thoughtless echo relationships which promote misunderstanding and violence. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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