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%DOMINEERING PEOPLE TRUE LOVERS COMPETE PROPERLY 050328 %THINK FRAME CONFLICT VALUES IDEALS TRANSCENDENT ID 050328 %CONCERNS COMPLEMENTARY MUTUAL GOALS PROFIT SELL IT 050328 %PRIORITY RIGHTS RITES HUMILITY ARROGANCE HUBRIS GO 050328 %GOING HEAVEN HELL DISINTEGRATE GEORGE LAKOFF FRAME 050328 %STRICT FATHER MODEL FAMILY ELEPHANT LIVING ROOMS 050328 Domineering-People and True-Lovers compete with each other about how to 1. Properly-Think-About Conflicting-Value/Ideals, 2. Frame-and-Talk-About their Transcendent-Concerns, 3. Profitably-Sell Their-Convictions, 4. Set-Priorities about Rights, Rites, and Righteousness. In his insightful, thoughtful & readable little book "don't think of an elephant" George Lakoff has Honestly- Exposed-to-View the Contrasting-Ways in which Leaders Frame-and-Talk-About their Transcendent-Concerns With- Frames of Contrasting-Visions about what is a Good-Family. 1. Dobson's Strident-Strict-Father Model-of-The-Family: a. The World-Is-A-Dangerous-Place, Always-Will-Be. b. There is Evil-Out-in-The-World, Always-Will-Be. c. The World-Is-Essentially-Competitive, Will-Be. d. Winners-And-Losers Will-Always-Exist. e. Absolute-Right and Absolute-Wrong Always-Exist. e. Children-are-born-Essentially-Bad. f. Children-Want-to-Do What-Feels-Good; Not-Right. g. Children-Have-To be-made To-Be-Good; Strictly. h. Only Strict-Fathers can Succeed-at-that-Tasks-Of: i. Protecting-the-Family in The-Dangerous-World. j. Support-The-Family in The-Dangerous-World. k. Teach-His-Children Who-IS-Right, Who-Is-Wrong. l. How-To-Be Redemptively-Coercively-VIOLENT. m. Honesty, Modesty & Humility are Signs-of-Weakness. n. Strict-Fathers must be Strong, Assertive, Right. o. In Times-of-Crisis Strict-Fathers Act-Unilaterally. p. Strict-Fathers-Give-Good-Orders, Children-Obey. q. Through-Punishments Strict-Fathers-Teach-Goodness. p. Physical-Violence Distinguishes-Right-from-Wrong. q. Without-Violence Children-Do-Not-Become-Moral. r. Morality IS Internal-Discipline-and-Conformity. s. Morality is Indicated by Acquired Wealth-Power. t. Prosperity comes through Enlightened-Self-Interest. u. Given-Opportunity Good-People Develop-Self-Interest. v. Good-Communities-Naturally-Grow via Self-Interests. w. Self-Interested-Individuals Rightly-Cooperate. x. Good-People are those who prosper in Self-Interests. y. The-Above Describe God's Natural-Laws-of-Nature. z. IT will Always-Be As-D-Scribed. GOD-IS-ETERNAL! God is in His-Heaven. Father is in His-Family. The USA is in Its-World. All is Well-With-The-World. Evil-Is-Eliminated! 2. True-Lovers' Nurturing-Parent Model-of-The-Family. a. The world is an evolving place, still imperfect. b. Human-Relationships are still-evolving, imperfect. c. Good-Relationships evolve-cooperatively, honestly. d. Evil-Relationships evolve-competitively, dishonestly e. Distributive-Justice is essential to Human-Health. f. Righteousness resides in True-Sanctuary-Communities. g. Children-Grow-Healthy within Healthy-Relationships. h. Healthy-Parents Model Integrative-Relationships. i. True-Security shows Safety-in-Honest-Vulnerability. j. Secure-Parents Facilitate Honest-Integrations. k. Secure-Parents are: Humble, Kind and Gracious. l. Honesty, Modesty & Humility are Signs-of-Integrity. m. Strength comes through dialogue and cooperation. n. Crises can often be avoided through such strength. o. Evolution makes ancient-goods-uncouth, out-of-date. p. Violence engenders Alienation-and-Disintegration. q. Arrogance engenders confusion, chaos, ignorance. r. Integrity is not founded upon conformity. s. Concentrations of Wealth/Power Engender-Corruption. t. Space-Ship-Earth encompasses Limited-Resources. u. A Ship's-Family must Cooperate-To-Survive-Together. v. Survival entails the Transcendence-of-Competition. w. Nurturing-Parents demonstrate Cooperative-Survival. x. Cosmic-Evolution demonstrates Integrative-Processes. y. Meaningful-Relationships are not Forced-Into-Being. z. Meaningful-Relationships Endure-Naturally-in-Love. Shalom! True-Lovers can understand and helpfully-deal with the Lack-of- Integrity on the part of Domineering people who are Mis-Led by the Strict-Father-Model-of-The-Family; because True-Lovers are Modeling: Honesty, Humility, Cooperation, Collaboration, Modesty, Coherence. Domineering-People who are Mis-Led by the Strict- Father-Model-of-The-Family cannot understand or helpfully deal with True-Lovers in Cooperative-Ways; because they as Domineering-People are Playing-Games-of-Mutual-Self- Deception in Keeping-With-The-Fallen-Powers-That-Be as described by Walter-Wink in his Powerful-Book "The Powers- That-Be." Walter Wink's and George Lakoff's books are Mutually-Complementary; and complementary to the book "Facing Terrorism; Responding as Christian " by Edward Le Roy, Long. All three offer well-written, concise, readable and insightful perspectives on the ills of the modern world. We cannot do anything with integrity, integrate anything, or demonstrate any kind of integrities --- while we are playing Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception in support of The-Fallen-Powers-That-Be. That is a hard lesson to internalize --- while trying to be Successful- Capitalists Being-Rewarded-by-The-Strict-Father-God who is Successfully-Presiding-Over-Heaven-and-Earth. Different-Kinds-of-People "FRAME": affirmations, issues, questions, descriptions, debates, discussions, arguments, analyses, and being-together in terms of different: concepts, key-words, phrases, technologies, and metaphors which-make-sense-to-them in terms of their-own- experiences. Their "PICTURES" look-different to-them because of their "DIFFERENT-FRAMES". What-Is-Real for them is different because of their "DIFFERENT-FRAMES". What are some Different-Kinds-of-People: 1. Scientists, 2. Mathematicians, 3. Astronomers, 4. Astrologers, 5. Geographers, 6. Musicians, 7. Artists, 8. Dancers, 9. Capitalists, 10. Socialists, 11. Communists, 12. Fundamentalists, 13. Muslims, 14. Christians, 15. Jews, 16. Zionists, 17. Buddhists, 18. Militarists, 19. Pacifists, 20. Peacemakers, 21. Strict-Fathers, 22. Nurturing-Parents, 23. Diplomats, 24. Children, 25. Computer-Experts, 26. Analysts, 27. Synthesists, 28. Healers, 29. Reconcilers, 30. Alienators, 31. Excommunicators, 32. Loners, 33. Lawyers, 34. Soldiers, 35. Commanders, 36. Generals, 37. Presidents, 38. Dictators, 39. Emperors. They differ in how they "FRAME" everything which they experience, see, do, hear, describe, understand, hope-for, expect, etc. Into what FRAME-WORK do they place everything which they deal with? What are the natural- consequences of the FRAME-WORKS within which they work? What kinds of communities do they create? Destroy? Heal? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================