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%ISSUES CONTROL DOMINATION PASSAGES TRANSITIONS GOD 050215 %PEACE STAGES GROWTH CONCRETE OPERATION LITERALISTS 050215 %PARABLE STORIES HISTORIC EVENTS DESCRIPTIONS DEVIL 050215 %WINNERS LOSERS DEFEATED ARMIES BATTLES ATTACKS SIN 050215 %RELAX TENSION CONTEND LEARNING PERSPECTIVE BORN 050215 %REBIRTH REFORM CONTROL VIOLENCE POLARIZE RELIGIONS 050215 Many issues-of-control pertain to: "passages", "transitions", "relaxations-of-tension", "peace-making", "stages-of-growth" "kinds-of-learning" "shifting-perspectives" "being-born-again" "repentance" "portals" "door-ways" "mystery" People who are on the early-side of a COMMON: "passage", "stage-of-growth", "transition", "doorway", etc. --- are often frustrated at their own not being able to control those who have made the-mysterious- transition to the other-side of the-mysterious- transition --- and so are often-frustrated that they cannot control the-mysterious-transition from their- own-early-side of the-mysterious-transition to the-other-side of the-mysterious- transition. Participants in collusive-games-of-mutual-self- deception have-a-sacred-duty to prevent any mysterious- transition out-of their-own stuck-stage-of-growth WITHIN their-own collusive-game-of-mutual-self-deception; WITHIN- A-COSMIC-EGG that they must not-let form-a-crack and must not-let expand-or-change in any way. Their-security lies within lies-about the possibilities-of-transitions-into new kinds of PERSONAL-RELATIONSHIPS which ARE: Open, honest, authentic, inclusive, revealing; Spontaneous, Creative, Imaginative, Fantastic; Communal, Cooperative, Collaborative, Holistic; Principled, Integrative, Reconciling, Healthy; Accepted, Respected, Honored, Inclusive, Protected; Evolving, Changing, Dynamic, Dancing, Rhythmic; Liberating, Facilitating-Learning, Healing, Loving; Soft, Kind, Gracious, Civil, Generous, Just, Erotic; - - - - - - - - - - - NOT: Cold, Frozen, Concrete, Hard, Stony, Rigid; NOT: Controlled, Violent, Managed, Coercive, Forced; NOT: Stuck, Bounded, Boxed-in, Tied-up, Limited; NOT: Pre-ordained, Pre-destined, Contractual; NOT: Programmed, Mechanical, Scripted, Planned; NOT: Hidden, Secret, Embarrassed, Conformal; NOT: Exclusive, Superior, Swank, Alienative; NOT: Abusive, Violent, Coercive, Addictive; NOT: Codependent, Individualistic, Independent; NOT: Rebellious, Angry, Resentful, Covetous; NOT: Conceited, Egotistical, Narcissistic; ETC. - - - - - - - - - - - People who-have-passed-through the above transition cannot-be-controlled, and so are an offense to those who are tragically stuck-playing-collusive-games-of-mutual- self-deception. The-Stuck-Ones have as their ULTIMATE-CONCERN the AVOIDANCE of the: Door, Way, Path, Temptations, and Mystery which they see as standing between them and the utterly-fearful Apparent-Chaos ON-THE-OTHER-SIDE and IN- BETWEEN them and the fearful portal-to-a-different-kind- of-life. (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================