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%HOW WHY DOMINEERING EVIL RELATIONSHIP EVOLVE GROW 040807 %FEARFUL HARD WORK INVULNERAABLE SECURE SAFE SAVED 040807 %SALVATION CONFORMITY LOYALTY FAITHFUL SERVANTS GO 040807 %HUMILITY POOR ADDICTIVE CODEPENENT COLLUSION EVIL 040807 %ALIENATED EXCOMMUNICATED SELF OTHER VICTIMS GOODS 040807 %PERVERSE PSYCHOLOGY SPIRITUALITY RELIGIOUS GROUPS 040807 How and why is it that domineering relationships evolve? A. Fearful-people feel it is necessary to-work-hard all-the-time to-be-INvulnerable == to-be-secure; i.e., (1) eqating security with INvulnerability; (2) equating INvulnerability with security; (3) equating vulnerbility with INsecurity; AND (4) equating INsecurity with vulnerability. B. Fearful-people feel as they do --- because they have rarely, if ever, felt-secure; i.e., invulnerable; for they cannot imagine being both-secure-and-vulnerable at the same moment --- never having seen/experiences such an inconceivable combination. C. Fearful-people thus feel that it is essential to- be-dominant; i.e., to-be-unilaterally-in-control. D. Consistent with all of the above, fearful-people avoid the vulnerabilities associated with: (1) Cooperation and colaboration. (2) Honesty and humility, (3) Authenticity and openness, (4) Generosity and hospitality, (5) Civility and civilization, (6) Intimacy and real-sexulity, (7) Speaking Truth-to-Power-Assertively, (8) Describing/exposing Domination-Systems, (9) Describing/exposing True-Consequences, (10) Describing/exposing Evil-Relationships. E. Domineering-relationships-evolve with the complicit-cooperation of weak-poor-vulnerable people who fear not-going-along-with-dominerring-people. It takes a perverse-kind-of-cooperation between weak-and-strong people to create domineering-relationships which are Evil-Relationships. They are equally-involved and equally-guilty. F. Fearful-people-go-along with DOMINEERING-PEOPLE because they HAVE-NOT-SEEN and CANNOT-IMAGINE any-form- of-RESISTANCE which is: NON-violent, NON-cercive, NON- domineering, NON-alienative, NON-destructive, NOT- arrogant, NOT-greedy, NOT-narcissistic, NOT-self- righteous, etc. G. Fearful-people do not act as peace-makers because they fear-being-perceived-as: weak, foolish, ignorant, naieve, gullible, and vulnerable. 7. Other fearful-people seem unable to rise above viewing and treating vulnerable-people as means to their own unilaterally chosen/conceived ends; usable, abusable and discardable tools --- not as live beings with whom to enter into truly-intimate-and-loving long-term-and-honest relationships which entail vulnerability in essential ways. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================