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This-essay is a9908231.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %PERSONAL INTIMATE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS JUDGMENT 990823 Often human relationships entail reflexive, echo, and back-and-forth patterns of responses/reactions: 1. Jack sees Jill for the first time, looks intently, and smiles. Jill sees Jack for the first time looking intently at her and smiling. Jill looks back intently and smiles. They move towards each other to get acquainted; etc. Their relationship is one of back and forth reflexive responses to each other's responses. 2. John sees Jack and Jill becoming involved in an intimate relationship. John has coveted Jill's attention; but has not become involved with Jill. John is envious of Jack and does not want Jack to "possess" Jill before John himself has a chance to become involved. John moves in to distract Jack. Jill resents John's moving into her and Jack's personal space, and becomes resentful towards John. All possibilities of Jill's becoming involved with John are pretty much ended with John's interfering with the developing relationship between Jack and Jill. The three potential lovers end up in a tangled web because of their complicated interactions with each other. 3. The possessive Puritanical parents of Jill see what has begun to develop. They regard Jill as too young and immature at 18 years old to become involved in any intimate relationship. Jill is totally dependent upon her parents financially, because her parents have not allowed her to get a job yet --- because she is too young to be out on her own. Her parents take her home to keep her away from Jack. The pattern of interacting relationships has become one level more complex. 4. Jill runs away from home to be with Jack. Jack turns out to be non-supportive and addictive, and ends up abusing Jill. Jill seeks police protection and Jack ends up before the Judge who requires mandatory counseling. Jill ends up back at home more angry with her parents and dependent upon them. Jack resents mandatory counseling and runs away and commits a crime. He is caught and ends up in jail. The pattern of dysfunctional relationships has become one more level more complex. We cannot deal wisely with healthy and unhealthy human relationships if we approach them in primarily in terms of the individuals who are involved --- and rarely if ever in terms of the natures and characteristics of the relationships which involve and create the individuals. Humans are the fruits of relationships; biologically, psychologically, intellectually, spiritually, etc. It is not helpful to ignore the fact that humans are the fruits of relationships. It is not helpful to regard relationships as incidental aspects of isolated persons who interact with each other as billiard balls and/or cannon balls. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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