This-essay is a9904163.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %VOLUNTARY ENJOYMENT PLEASURE FULFILLMENT CONTROL 990416 People who are preoccupied with issues of control often feel/believe that they have a right, privilege and/or duty to participate in the control of other people's enjoyment/fulfillment of their God-given unique gifts and potentials. Toward the fulfillment of their right, privileges and/or duties such people see it as right, necessary and/or proper --- to participate in the control of other people's experiences of shame, guilt and/or alienation. Such people find it difficult to recognize sin and evil in their own behaviors and relationships ---because they do not recognize or acknowledge sin and evil as rooted in and engendering alienation, estrangement and broken relationships/dialogue --- they show little concern regarding the breakdown of communications through which people voluntarily share their most significant experiences in intimate relationships which are not controlled by other people. People enjoy the fulfillment of their God-given unique gifts and potentials --- through the sharing of gifts of the freedom to be safely vulnerable in the voluntary telling of stories about their most significant experiences in relationships which are not controlled by other people. Therein people enjoy security as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. People who are preoccupied with issues of control find that insight terrifying --- because it threatens their finding their enjoyment/fulfillment through the control of other people and of their experiences of shame, guilt and/or alienation. They fear insights which threaten the apparent integrity of their collusive games of mutual self deception. Their security and sense of meaning are both based upon dishonest foundations. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================Lines beginning with a percent sign are KEYWORDS for use in ESSAY-System Searches. Their terminal digits are dates of writing in the format @yymmdd#, where @ = a means 99, @ = b means 20, and # = is a within-date essay-count. Links to date-adjacent essays are near page top & bottom.
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