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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9805251.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY SELF JUDGEMENT PRAISE+980525 %PUNISHMENT SHAME GUILT CONDEMNATION ALIENATION 980525 We cannot frequently enjoy both personal and communal integrity so long as we uncritically accept practices of: self-judgement, self-praise, self-punishment, self- shaming, self-guilting, self-condemnation, self- righteousness and self-alienation. We cannot with integrity engage in these peculiar reflexive behaviors. We often disintegrate as we engage in these peculiar behaviors. in the absence of informed open and honest dialogue. In open and honest dialogue, integrative people describe the risks which they have perceived to be inherent in the peculiar reflexive behaviors. The behaviors are peculiar and risky because: 1. They run great risks of perverse bias. 2. The behaviors can be driven by the collusive games of mutual self-deception within a community. 3. They can be coercively manipulated from a distance by families, relatives, religious groups, political groups, etc. 4. The behaviors are prone to be associated with alienation, estrangement and excommunications. 5. The behaviors are rarely engaged in within healthy contexts which help participants to transcend the perversions and risks which are inherent in the behaviors. 6. Participants in the peculiar behaviors are often dysfunctional people who pass on their dysfunctional attitudes, assumptions, approaches, beliefs and patterns of perception of various kinds of relationships. Their peculiar behaviors are symptomatic of dis-ease. The participants rarely enjoy security as the freedom to be safely vulnerable in intimate relationships which are open, honest and healthy. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================