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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9712211.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COLLUSIVE CONTEND ADDICTS ADVANTAGE APPOINT SELF 971221 People who are prone to participate in collusive- contentious-addictive behaviors have ways of converting healthy and cooperative honest people to their unhealthy and contentious ways of relating to others by: 1. Getting elected/appointed to positions of official power and influence. 2. Operating in terms of tacit prescriptions and proscriptions which are part of collusive games of mutual self deception in the manner of addicts and codependent supporters. 3. Enforcing tacit prescriptions and proscriptions via threats of exclusion, excommunication, banishment, etc. 4. Including in the tacit prescriptions and proscriptions (many which forbid involvement in human activities) which are essential to personal and communal integrity --- for such activities are threats against the apparent integrity of the collusive games of mutual self deception. 5. When open and honest intimate people violate the rules against activities which are essential to personal and communal integrity --- punish them in ways which make it clear to the faint-hearted that they had better not be so disobedient. Others will learn that it is better to join in the games of mutual self-deception than to try to buck-the-tide. Others will thus surrender in one way or another. a. They will become rebellious and contentious in overt conflicts against the contentious people whom they despise. They will have become like the contentious people whom they despise. or b. They will become secretive, deceptive and misleading in their dealings with the contentious people --- and so become like the contentious people whom they despise. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================