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This-essay is a9703271.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %TRUSTWORTHY ADULT PARENT GUIDANCE WARNING PROHIBIT+970327 %TABOO SILENCE SEXUALITY PLEASURE RISK VULNERABLE+970327 %AUTHORITY EXPERIMENT UNRELIABLE MANIPULATE COERCE+970327 %ALIENATION SEPARATION FRAGMENT TEACH DISHONEST SIN 970327 One of the most critical decisions made by young people is the decision as to whether their parent(s) or guardians(s) is trustworthy; worthy of respect. The decision is made based upon young people's experience in regards to how open and honest their elders are regarding the nature of and the grounds for rules, regulations, prohibitions, prescriptions, proscriptions, warnings, etc. Young people are bound to check out rules, regulations, prohibitions, prescriptions, proscriptions, warnings, etc. --- for authenticity. Young people are experimentalists, wanting to know if they can trust their elders. They are skilled at detecting sham, deception, dishonesty, and any lack of integrity. They are bound to make decisions as to whether their parent(s) or guardian(s) are trustworthy, worthy of respect, based upon their findings and conclusions regarding how open and honest their elders are. When elders do not talk openly and honestly about human sexuality with its pleasures, fulfillments, vulnerability, risks, and consequences --- young people are likely to perform their own experimental procedures to learn what they can on their own --- and so check out the tacit signals which their elders are sending without integrity. There is a fairly high probability that the young people will come to the conclusion that their elders do not merit full respect and trust. The young people will then be unable to benefit fully from any prudent advice which their elders may offer about other risks and hazards in life regarding drugs, driving, addiction, dropping out of school, work opportunities, etc. It is very risky for parents to make mistakes which lead their children to draw the conclusion that they, the elders, are being dishonest and lack integrity. Young people are looking for people whom they can trust --- and if they find that they cannot trust their elders, they will most likely seek others who are more like themselves and whom they feel are more trust-worthy. That can be a dangerous business! Parents are foolish to encourage their children to get into that business. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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