This-essay is a9702221.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %SECRET HIDDEN COLLUSIVE TRUTH FEAR ANXIETY DISEASE+970222 %FALL LOVE UNBALANCED POWER FAMILY WAR ROMEO JULIET+970222 %RELIGIOUS RACE SEXUAL DISCRIMINATION INTIMACY SIN+970222 %COLLUSION CONFLICT RESOLUTION OPEN HONEST EMOTIONS 970222 Often hidden truths plague us and make us be dis- eased; ill-at-ease. How and why do some truths become hidden, secret, and the occasions for dis-ease and being ill-at-ease? Often people fall in love; but often people who fall in love find that they are on opposite sides of some great divide which acts to keep them apart because of: 1. Families at war with each other---Romeo & Juliet. 2. Nations at war with each other. 3. Religious groups at war with each other. 4. Free-men and slaves. 5. Whites and blacks. 6. Rich and poor. 7. Educated and un-educated. 8. Powerful and powerless. 9. Old and young. 10. Gender-orientation differences. 11. Married and not-married. In such instances as people become closer and more intimate---a point comes when choices are made between becoming more and more open/honest --- and becoming respectable participants in collusive games of mutual self-deception. Either more and more truths about each other are shared---or more and more truths about each other are awkwardly with-held in conventional ways --- in the interest of conforming to traditional formulas of proper behavior. Hidden truths become the occasions for being ill-at- ease; dis-eased and sick in heart, mind and body. If there were common grounds and understandings about resolving conflicts which arise on occasions of falling in love---we might better find ways to avoid the generation of hidden truths which become occasions for being ill-at- ease; dis-eased and sick in heart, mind and body. We will do well and be well when we learn how to find common grounds and understandings about resolving conflicts which arise on occasions of falling in love --- in ways which transcend traditional boundaries. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================Lines beginning with a percent sign are KEYWORDS for use in ESSAY-System Searches. Their terminal digits are dates of writing in the format @yymmdd#, where @ = a means 99, @ = b means 20, and # = is a within-date essay-count. Links to date-adjacent essays are near page top & bottom.
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