This-essay is a9702191.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %CONDITIONAL LOVE ACCEPTANCE DIALOGUE CONVERSATION+970219 %EXCLUSIVE MEMBERSHIP RIGHTS PRIVILEGES CLUB CHURCH+970219 %EXCOMMUNICATION ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT REJECTION+970219 %NATURE GOOD EVIL SIN SALVATION DAMNATION HEAVEN+970219 %PURITY CODE LAWS PERFECTION SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS SIN 970219 People who have never experienced being accepted as they are, without the need to engage in pretense, are likely to be unable to believe it is possible to be accepted as they are, without the need to engage in pretense. This is especially the case if they have repeatedly had it made clear to them that they will be accepted as a member of various communities if, and only if, they meet the various conditions for membership in the various communities. In many people's experiences, the rule is enforced without exception: "to be accepted you must meet the conditions of membership in the accepting community." You will not be accepted into membership if you break the rule that acceptance into membership is always conditional upon meeting the prescribed conditions for acceptance into membership. Further: if you break the conditions for acceptance into membership after you have been accepted into membership---you can be sure that you will be stripped of your rights of membership. Thus: if after you have been accepted into membership you violate the rule that you shall be accepting only towards people who have fulfilled AND MAINTAINED the conditions for acceptance into membership---you will surely lose your rights of membership. It is inconceivable that it could be otherwise. It is a violation of the rules of membership to conceive of or talk about any other possibility. The purity of our exclusive club must be maintained. Impure people must not be allowed inside our club. We must not be seen with impure people outside our club. We must associate only with pure people, else our own purity will be compromised and we will be ejected from our pure club. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================Lines beginning with a percent sign are KEYWORDS for use in ESSAY-System Searches. Their terminal digits are dates of writing in the format @yymmdd#, where @ = a means 99, @ = b means 20, and # = is a within-date essay-count. Links to date-adjacent essays are near page top & bottom.
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