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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9701023.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CROSSED TIGHT ROPE WALKERS EXPONENTIAL GROW DECAY 970102 Picture two tight rope walkers walking across tight ropes which cross each other at the middle of each rope. Picture them wanting to be interdependently together at the intersection of their two ropes. The ropes are tied together making a small angle between them where they are tied. What either person does will significantly affect the context of the other person's efforts to maintain balance; even before they are together where the two ropes are bound together. For the two people to successfully get together at the middle they will have to cooperate exceedingly well; each responding instinctively to the other's actions in complementary ways. Success will be unlikely if they: 1. Are unable to be open and honest with each other during practice about how they feel about what they are trying to do and how successful they are. 2. Cannot see or hear each other in uninhibited ways. 3. Are distracted by people near and dear to them who are opposed to their efforts to get together. 4. Have to compensate for people shaking the ropes. 5. Have internalized conflicting images of what needs to be done to be successful. 6. Have secret ulterior motives. 7. Cannot admit to, and learn from, mistakes made. 8. Are hypercritical of each other's mistakes. 9. Live according to conflicting ideals and values. People who are seeking to develop a healthy intimate relationships are often walking tight ropes which intersect each other at small angles---and are trying to do so in an environment which is less than fully supportive. "Romeo and Juliet" stories abound in dramatic presentations and in everyday life. All too often bystanders are disintegrative influences, rather than integrative influences. Often those who are disintegrative influences are proud of themselves for being "better" than those whom they distract. They are blind to how disintegrative their self-righteousness is. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================