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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9512141.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DYSFUNCTION ADDICTIVE CONTEXT SYMPTOM SHARE+951214 %DIALOGUE FRIENDSHIP LIBERATE EXPERIENCE DESCRIBE+951214 %INSIGHT THREAT PERCEPTION DEFENSIVE SECURITY+951214 %VULNERABLE PLEASURE LOVE DOUBT CONFUSE TRUTH+951214 %RESPECT ABUSE WORTHY GUILT SINS CHILDISH+951214 %RELIGIOUS BELIEF GUILT INNOCENT ACCEPT CONTROL 951214 We are the victims of a dysfunctional addictive context whenever we: Want to share with others how wonderful our friendship is with a special friend --- but feel that we dare not do so with anybody --- because others will be critical of our wonderful friendship. Want to share with others a wonderful, new and liberating experience which means a lot to us --- but feel that we dare not do so with anybody --- because others will think less of us because of it. Want to share with others a liberating insight or perception we have enjoyed --- but feel that we dare not do so with anybody --- because others will be threatened and become defensive. Want to share with others some new pleasure we have experienced --- but feel that we dare not do so with anybody because others will be threatened and become defensive. Want to share with others the insight that something we have always thought to be true is not true --- but feel that we dare not do so with anybody --- because others will not appreciate the insight, or be threatened by the insight. Want to discuss with others some matter about which we are in doubt or confused --- but we feel that we dare not do so with anybody --- because others will be threatened by our bringing the topic up. Have desires for friendship, intimacy and affection with others --- but we feel that we dare not ever let them know of our desires because we fear that they will think we are strange. Have come to recognize that certain respected people are in fact abusive and unworthy of our respect, and want to share our insight with others --- but we dare not do so with anybody --- because we do not know anybody we can trust enough to share the insight. Feel that we must try to control or appear to control things, people, processes or relationships which in fact we cannot control. Are not acceptable until we have made ourselves acceptable. Are guilty until we have proven that we are innocent. Have outgrown our childish religious beliefs and want to talk about having outgrown them with somebody --- but do not dare to do so because we do not know anybody we can trust enough to talk with them about how we have grown up. Are constantly pretending that we believe, desire, perceive, feel, think, and hope in ways which conform to our sense of other people's expectations of us---rather than in ways which are expressive of who we really and truly are. Are not true to ourselves or others because of some sense of duty, necessity or obligation imposed upon us from outside of us. Do not take as good care of ourselves as we take care of others. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================