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 %FEAR FIX COMPULSION ALIENATION REJECTION JUDGMENT 950222

                Fear engenders:

     FIXATIONS        COMPULSIONS         ALIENATIONS

     REJECTIONS       JUDGMENTALISM       CONDEMNATIONS

     PARALYSIS        REPRESSION          VIOLENCE

     COERCION         DEFENSIVENESS       PROHIBITIONS

     ADDICTIONS       CODEPENDENCE        COLLUSIONS

     DISHONESTY       DECEPTIONS          SECRECY

     TERRORISM        WAR                 MILITARISM

                Love engenders:

     RELAXATION       LIBERATION          RECONCILIATION

     ACCEPTANCE       FORGIVENESS         DIALOGUE

     VITALITY         DISCOVERY           GENTLENESS

     EDUCATION        SECURITY            ENCOURAGEMENT

     RECOVERY         SELF-ESTEEM         HONESTY

     REVELATIONS      OPENNESS            CONVERSATIONS

     RECONSTRUCTION   CONFLICT-RESOLUTION SHALOM

        How are we to respond to fear?

 Only if we respond to fear with love can we:

               Transcend fear.

           Be liberated from fear.

   Be reconciled with those whom we fear.

     Accept those we fear as being children of God.

  Forgive the people whom we have traditionally feared.

   Begin open and honest dialogue with those we feared.

    Regain our vitality and discover each other anew.

       Become free to be gentle again.

   Be liberated through honest education.

   Give and receive gifts of true security.

     Know security as the freedom to be vulnerable.

   Encourage each other to be true to self and others.

   Recover our self-esteem through honest revelations.

    Through open conversations resolve our conflicts.

     Begin the process of reconstruction of communities.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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