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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9502051.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISINTEGRATIVE REFLEXIVE RELATIONSHIPS KINDS FAIL 950205 The following words are suggestive of disintegrative personal relationships: DISHONEST DECEPTIVE MISLEADING ABUSIVE COERCIVE VIOLENT MANIPULATIVE CONTROLLED REPRESSIVE BLOCKED SUPPRESSIVE PUNITIVE SADISTIC AGGRESSIVE VENGEFUL REVENGEFUL ALIENATIVE REJECT ARROGANT TRAGIC It is tragic when personal relationships are characterized by words such as those above---when two or more people are involved in the relationships. It is not obvious that it is possible for personal relationships to be characterized by words such as those above---when there is just one human body involved. We are prone to think that the above words are relevant only when there are two or more bodies. We need to consider the ways in which the above words may point to tragic aspects of the reflexive relationships between and among the aspects of one person---embodied within just one physical body. In these considerations sharp boundaries often vanish upon closer examination---as in the close examination of fractal boundaries drawn on progressively magnified scales by computer programs on computer screens. Even so, the appearance of boundaries can be significant; i.e., boundaries between somewhat different and often conflicting aspects of one person. When the above tragic list of words points significantly to the nature of the relationships between somewhat different aspects of one person, they point to disintegrative processes which may spread from the relationships within one person to relationships between the one person and other persons. It is important to recognize that the words point to relationships in each instance; not to entities devoid of relationships. The tragedies pertain to relationships; not to elements. Dealing with elements as isolated elements is not a solution to the dilemma to which the tragic words point--- it is a symptom of the alienation to which the tragic words point. Wisdom and love call for dealing openly and honestly with the tragic aspects of the relationships of alienation; and call for workers to work to heal those relationships in honestly reflexive ways. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================