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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9406201.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTEXT TRUE LOVE SEXUAL CONNECTION FEAR REVEALS+940620 %VIOLENT DEFENSE COLLUSIVE GAMES SELF DECEPTION+940620 %ADDICTIVE MANIPULATION CONTROL MANAGEMENT HONESTY 940620 Within the context of true love and sexual relationships we may (if we wish to) receive revelations of the dysfunctional natures of many people's FEARS of such contexts, relationships and revelations. Within those contexts we may also receive (if we wish to) revelations of the dysfunctional natures of such people's violent DEFENSES of their collusive games of mutual self deception as addicts and their codependent supporters. It is thus natural for fearful people to work to pervert such open and honest contexts and relationships. The above considerations suggest that it is dangerous to become intimately and/or sexually involved with a person who is collusive, addictive and/or codependent--- for such people are likely to become manipulative and violent when their patterns of dishonesty are threatened by the revealing possibilities of truly intimate and/or sexual relationships. This caution is especially important for naive young people to become aware of before they become motivated to get so involved. They need education regarding the nature of the threats to their integrity as they seek to become connected in healthy ways. Our personal and communal integrities depend on whether or not we wish to receive true revelations which are presented to us; i.e., they depend upon what we search for. If we are not seeking to be ourselves, whole and healthy---then we are not likely to be ourselves, whole and healthy. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================