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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9405121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INCOMPLETE SPECIALTY EXCLUSIVITY NEGLECT TRUE LOVE+940512 %PARADIGM OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE COMMON EXPERIENCE+940512 %FAIL SIGN PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY SPECIALIST+940512 %RESPONSIVE NEED LACK FEAR DEFENSE INCLUSIVE JOY+940512 %SEPARATE ALIENATE SECURITY ACCEPT SEXUAL INTIMATE 940512 A paradigm is an incomplete paradigm if it does not make integrative provision for open and honest dialogue regarding each of the most common human experiences. A failure to make integrative provision for open and honest dialogue regarding a common human experience is a sign that a paradigm is incomplete; i.e., unable to promote both personal and communal integrity. Specialists narrow their focus of attention to some limited range of human experiences---in order to be able to be more knowledgeable about the narrow range of human experiences, than are generalists who seek to be comprehensive in their integrative efforts. The paradigms of specialists are thus incomplete; they are often unable to be responsive in integrative ways to human needs to deal with some common human experience. Some people seek to compensate for their fears through defense mechanisms, including exclusivities. Exclusive people, clubs and places of business are fearful of whomever and whatever they exclude. Their paradigms do not make integrative provisions for open and honest dialogue with the people whom they exclude. Neither do they make integrative provision for open and honest dialogue about excluded people's common human experiences. Fear usually is rooted in some kind of separation or alienation; in an absence of relationships in which love plays an active integrative role. Fearful people are alienated from common human experiences and are not comfortable in dealing with those common human experiences from which they are separated. Alienation engenders fear, and fear engenders alienation---in a vicious feed-back loop where defensiveness excludes from consideration the giving and accepting of true gifts of security known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable in open and honest dialogue. Fearful people's paradigms do not make provision for open and honest dialogue with each other regarding each other's fears. Fearful people's paradigms are tragically incomplete. Fearful people are not familiar with integrative conflict resolution, and often fear the possibility of conflict resolution which would reduce the substance of their lives which is fear. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================