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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9405074.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %REJECT IRRESPONSIBLE PERSON FAIL CONTROL RESULT+940507 %CONSEQUENCE RESPONSE OUTCOME REFLEXIVE CAUSE LOVE 940507 We are prone to reject people who fail to be responsibly in control of results, consequences and other people's personal responses related to manipulative actions. We assume that it is integrative to require people to be in control. Yet we refuse to recognize the many instances in which the consequences of our assumptions, convictions, beliefs, decisions and actions lead to tragic personal and communal disintegration. We play collusive games of mutual self deception--- according to the rules of which we should be able to control the results, consequences and responses related to our assumptions, convictions, beliefs and actions. Yet we project our disappointments, frustrations and angers related to our own failures outward towards other people-- -with whom we refuse to be in dialogue. We do not want them to have any influence over us---much less to be in control of us. Yet we want them to be responsibly in control of other people's responses to their decisions and actions. We, however, are not people whom they should control. We cannot honestly expect personal and communal integrity to flow from our manipulative assumptions, convictions, beliefs and expectations---when they lack integrity. Thus our expectations are dishonest and misleading---leading us into tragic disintegration and disappointments. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================