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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9402171.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FIRST CONTEXT COMMUNITY ACCEPT DIALOGUE GIFT+940217 %SECURITY DEFENSE MUTUAL UNDERSTAND RECONCILE FREE 940217 Which best comes first: contexts conducive to exchanging gifts of security known as the freedom to be safely venerable; or individually achieving acceptability on the basis of personal attitudes, beliefs, convictions, behaviors and appearances. Does working individually to achieve acceptability ENGENDER contexts conducive to exchanging gifts of security known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable? Not in most people's experience---because the efforts are misguided---rather than because the efforts are not made. Working to create contexts conducive to exchanging gifts of security known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable ENGENDER occasions of acceptance into personal intimate dialogue, mutual understanding, reconciliation, friendship, healing, health, personal integrity, and communal integrity. Tragically, such work does not occur often enough --- because many of our efforts are often misguided. We need to focus our attention upon creating humane contexts within which personal and communal integrity are promoted by unconditional acceptance of imperfect people into imperfect open and honest dialogue; rather than focus our attention upon perfecting ourselves so that we will be acceptable in terms of the demands for conformity often made by imperfect communities. Imperfect communities often assume a person is not acceptable until proven otherwise; and that imposing pre-conditions for acceptance will encourage and enable self-perfection, and so promote the achievement of conformal acceptability. Humane communities assume that an imperfect person will be encouraged to grow into a person of personal integrity within an integrative community which unconditionally accepts the imperfect person into open and honest dialogue without pre-conditions. That makes a helpful difference. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================