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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9401181.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE SELF OTHER BASIS DIFFERENT INTEGRITY TEMP+940118 %DILEMMA DIFFERENCE CONFORM COLLUDE DECEPTION 940118 As we seek the fruits of true integrity we are often tempted to compromise our own integrity or the integrity of our community/others in the way we seek. If we compromise our being true to self and others, we do not find or enjoy the fruits of true integrity. Central to our dilemma as we seek the fruits of true integrity is the question of how to deal with our differences. Shall we smooth out our differences through conformal procedures, or shall we be true to ourselves and each other about our differences? Our efforts to smooth out our differences through conformal procedures usually lead us into collusive games of mutual self deception within mutually supportive addictive/codependent relationships. If we do not find or create honest ways to deal with our differences we are bound to disintegrate. Our differences often generate conflicts within conformal communities. In contrast, our differences generate interesting dialogue within integrative communities and peoples. The difference between the two processes is the difference between a community in which the fruits of integrity are feared --- and a community in which the fruits of integrity are enjoyed. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================