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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9312222.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %THANKS APPRECIATE FORGIVE GENEROUS GIFT ANTIDOTE+931222 %CHEER JOY HAPPY POSITIVE AFFIRM ACCEPT TOLERATE 931222 Being positive, thankful, appreciative, forgiving, generous, cheerful, joyous, happy, affirming, accepting and tolerant---can be effective antidotes to the debilitative effects of the presence of collusive addicts and codependents who are playing games of mutual self deception---and who seek to require us to play their games with them to help them preserve their dysfunctional paradigms. The antidotes are not effective if they are not used honestly; i.e., if they are part of our own games of mutual self deception by which we seek to pretend that imperfections which are present do not exist or can be ignored without paying the price for such dishonesty. The antidotes are not effective if we do not at the same time recognize, name, describe and talk about the dishonesty of others and the price that is paid because of their dishonesty. The antidotes are not effective if they are used as manipulative weapons in a conflict with others who use more negative weapons. Weapons of personal manipulation are alienative no matter how good they may be, and no mater how good our intentions may be. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================