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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9312131.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %NEWBORN INFANT CHILD INSTINCT GIVE ACCEPT SHARE+931213 %TRUST RISK HONEST OPEN DEFEND VULNERABLE LOVE SEX 931213 The healthy child in a healthy family starts life as a newborn infant with healthy instincts to: love, accept, give, be open, trust, take risks, be curious, talk, be vulnerable, etc. Such healthy instincts are often repressed due to tragic behaviors which hurt and elicit: defensiveness, distrust, secretiveness, resentment, silence, anger, frustration and inclinations to be violent. Both healthy behavior and unhealthy behavior tend to grow exponentially; i.e., in proportion to their presence. Our dilemma is how to promote healthy behavior by our own healthy behavior in the presence of the risks generated by other people's unhealthy behavior. How can we prudently take risks which reduce the extent of future risks. If we are unwilling to take any risks and pay a small price we will behave in alienative ways through our distrust and defensiveness; and the alienation which we thus generate will come back to haunt us with increased risks in the future, and with an inclination on our part to become increasingly defensive. If we are willing to take prudent risks in the absence of any guarantee of success---we will through our trust engender additional trust which will grow and come back to bless us with decreased risks in the future, and so bless us with increasing levels of true security experienced as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================