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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9312041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %HUMAN RELATION CONFLICT VIOLENCE ACCEPT BASIS+931204 %WHOLE PERSON DIALOGUE FRIEND INTIMATE LOVE TRAIN+931204 %ANGER RESENT REVENGE RETALIATE DESTROY CROWN MOB 931204 The character of our human relationships depend critically upon the bases in terms of which we accept each other person into our relationships. 1. As a whole person into honest dialogue? 2. As an object to analyze, predict, control? 3. As a puzzle to be solved? 4. As a challenge to our manipulative skills? 5. As a resource to be used and manipulated? 6. As en employee to train, discipline, punish? 7. As a team member or competitor with/against us? 8. As someone to convert to our point of view? 9. As a threat, enemy, adversary? The nature of our relationships depend critically upon how and with what attitudes, convictions, beliefs we approach each other. Our human relationships can never be truly objective realities to be analyzed, understood, predicted, manipulated and controlled as with objects. If we believe otherwise our failures will ultimately prove us wrong in our inability to survive in environments where we fail to deal with dilemmas and problems appropriately. If we approach each other inappropriately we are likely to become frustrated, angered and resentful of our failures and blame others for our own failures; and so take out our anger upon others. Thus we are likely to develop an exponential growth in dysfunctional behaviors which will destroy whatever integrity we and our communities may have previously enjoyed. Mob psychology and crowd behavior are likely to dominate us and so we are likely to fail to survive with integrity. This has been demonstrated over and over in protracted civil religious, ethnic and international conflicts wherein people who have approached each other in dysfunctional ways which ultimately become violent and they destroy their communities in angry expressions of their frustrations. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================