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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9309181.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %GIVE SELF SECURITY FREEDOM SAFE VULNERABLE 930918 It is not only essential that we give others the gift of security known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. It is also essential that we give ourselves the same gift. If we do not give ourselves the freedom to be safely vulnerable we cannot love others by giving them the same gift; for we can love others only as much and in the kinds of ways in which we love ourselves. We may not feel it is safe for us to give ourselves the gift of security known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. Others may have communicated to us tacitly the conviction that we must earn such security; that until we have paid for such security with good deeds we must not enjoy such security. We need to recognize and talk about how such a conviction leads to personal and communal alienation and disintegration. It is a conviction that leads to evil personal relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================