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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE LOVE GOD SELF OTHERS WORK ENABLE OPEN HONEST+930610 %DIALOGUE BALANCE GIFT SECURITY ADDICT CODEPEND JOY 930610 True love works to enable and encourage open and honest dialogue in ways which are: 1. Gentle 2. Not violent 3. Considerate 4. Not coercive 5. Charitable 6. Not manipulative 7. Generous 8. Not demanding 9. Forgiving 10. Not judgmental 11. Humble 12. Not pretentious 13. Integrative 14. Not fragmentive 15. Liberating 16. Not controlling 17. Encouraging 18. Not discouraging 19. Supportive 20. Not punitive 21. Relaxing 22. Not diseasing 23. Empathic 24. Not harsh 25. Affective 26. Not technocratic 27. Restful 28. Not contentious 29. Mutual 30. Not codependent 31. Honest 32. Not collusive 33. Open 34. Not secretive 35. Balanced 36. Not unilateral 37. Coherent 38. Not dichotomous 39. Inclusive 40. Not exclusive When people affirm and work for goals, purposes, ideals, values and plans unilaterally---they tend to pervert their conception of what true love is, so that they see love as consistent with their unilateral goals, purposes, ideals, values and plans; but not as consistent with the above descriptions. That perversion leads to many tragic consequences which they cannot see with any clarity or understanding. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================