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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9305172.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COPYCAT CHILD IMITATE ROLE MODEL INTERNAL CONFLICT+930517 %WOUND VIOLENCE COLLUDE ADDICT DISHONEST CODEPEND 930517 If we are to heal from the wounds which we have suffered in our past we need to focus upon considerations which promote healing, recovery, reconciliations, resolution of conflicts and transcendence of compulsions which nurse the wounds of the past as cherished possessions. Any form of compulsive preoccupation with the past wounds and with those who inflicted them will be likely to block healing and recovery. Recitations of how unjust the infliction of the wounds may have been, will not promote healing and recovery. Attempts to even the score, no matter how out of balance the score may be, will not promote healing and recovery. Any efforts to pretend that the wounds were not inflicted, were not real, were not serious---will not promote healing and recovery. Pretending that our parents and family of origin were more perfect than they really were, will not promote recovery. If we were wounded by them because they were wounded by their parents and family of origin---and we refuse to acknowledge the facts of our lives---then we and our children will repeat/relive the tragic scripts of our parents, as long as we refuse to be honest about and learn from their mistakes. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================